March 30th, 2003
|jimbojones||07:53 pm - Some things, I just don't get|
Wtf is up with all these girls bitchin' about how their man won't have sex with them? Or more accurately, what's up with their men, I guess. I'll admit it - at the ripe old age of 31, my libido has decreased slightly... to the point where it doesn't drive me CONSTANTLY FUCKING INSANE wanting sex, at least. But certainly not to the point that I can imagine AVOIDING sex with someone I genuinely like.
Assuming that I actually like the person on the other end of the equation, I have three sexual conditions:
I pretty much have to accept the evidence of my own eyes, which tells me that the vast majority of people (of EITHER gender) start losing interest in the sexual end of any given relationship once it gets past a certain stage. But I sure as hell don't grok it, baby.
- GET OVER HERE!
- Okay, I'm not in the mood at the moment, but with a little snuggling-with-malice-aforethought first... awwwww, yeah. C'mere.
- Jesus CHRIST woman this is the fifth time TODAY, are you trying to KILL ME?
Current Mood: aggravated
Current Music: J-Live - Inside Looking Outro
Kat, I don't know how much you guys have talked this over, but it's possible that he might just be in the habit of letting you initiate things. I've found that that can happen over time -- building up a sort of, "Well, if she were in the mood she would have made a move, 'cause that's what she usually does, so she must not want that kind of attention right now," attitude.
Anyway, if you haven't discussed this, it's worth doing. If you have, well, um... I have links to a few novelty items that can help you out.