I hope it all works out in the way that will make you both happiest in the long run. Even if that means it's not what you think you want, but also even if it is, regardless of how I personally feel. No matter what, I'm sending many e-hugs your way.
Re: your comment on the slaves page honoring her master
Holy shit, no, I think Jim posted a link to some "This is my master" page that a 'slave' put up or something, like, fucking YEARS ago. I think so, anyway... BG's comment sort of twigged my memory. I think this person must have been going through the archives from jw.o... REALLY sifting.